The problem with trauma is that it gets carried forward from generation to generation. A type of shared trauma between mothers and daughters, passes counter-intuitive behavior patterns across the progeny.

Many of us take too long to realize that our relationship might have run its course. Or worse, that it’s on a very precarious path that might be leading to emotional strife or danger.

If you are lucky, both you and your lover each have your passions that feed your creativity and purpose. Allowing the other to flow without restriction. Both evolving and growing. Which means that in order to really connect deeper and wider there has to be time to reorient and relearn each other's landscape.